Teenage Brides: SA Girls Fight Forced Marriage! You Won't Believe This!
South Africa faces a hidden crisis: forced marriage affecting thousands of young girls. A 2016 survey revealed a shocking statistic: over 91,000 girls aged 12-17 were married, divorced, or living with men. These numbers paint a grim picture of the challenges facing young women in the country.
Social Ills Fighters: The Young Activists Leading the Charge
In KwaZulu-Natal, a group of brave young activists calling themselves the Social Ills Fighters (SIFs) are taking a stand. These girls, some as young as 15, are confronting the complex issue of early and forced marriage (EFM) head-on. They use digital stories to raise awareness and advocate for change within their communities.
Their mission is clear: to combat social ills impacting girls, including forced marriage and school dropouts caused by families seeking 'lobolo' (bride price). This traditional practice, involving the exchange of gifts like cattle for a bride, is being exploited to traffic young girls.
The Disturbing Reality Behind Lobolo
The SIFs highlight how lobolo, once a respected custom, has become a tool for exploitation. Families, driven by poverty or greed, are forcing their daughters into marriage for financial gain, robbing them of their childhood and future.
Women's Month: A Time for Reflection and Action
As South Africa observes Women's Day and Women's Month, it's crucial to address these uncomfortable truths. Beyond celebrations, we must acknowledge the harsh realities faced by many girls. Unicef data from 2022 indicates that South Africa has 1.6 million women who were married as children, showcasing the persistence of this issue.
Furthermore, a 2024 study by the Human Sciences Research Council revealed that over one in three South African women have experienced physical or sexual violence. Nearly 70% of men surveyed believe a wife should obey her husband, revealing deeply rooted societal attitudes that contribute to gender-based violence (GBV).
The fight against forced marriage requires a multi-faceted approach, including education, legal reforms, and challenging harmful cultural norms. The courage and determination of the Social Ills Fighters offer a beacon of hope, demonstrating that change is possible. We must support these young activists and work together to create a future where all girls can thrive.