Is Romance Officially Dead in Mzansi?
Aweh, South Africa! In a world obsessed with irony and anti-romantic think pieces, is it actually 'cringe' to be openly grateful for your significant other? Eish, things have changed. Forget the classic rom-coms and the 'Take my wife...please!' jokes. The vibe now is all about side-eyeing relationships, especially if you're a highly educated, liberal woman.
According to recent trends, wanting a man is seen as a tragic inconvenience, something to be joked about until all genuine affection is buried under layers of sarcasm. Hayibo! Where did all the love go?
From Marriage Goals to Solo Vibes
Pop culture reflects this shift. The marriage comedy has been replaced by the divorce memoir, the passionate romance by something...else. Even major publications are questioning whether having a boyfriend is now embarrassing. Can you believe it?
It seems like the days of openly appreciating your husband are over. Now, expressing gratitude for your man is seen as uncool. What a time to be alive (or not, if you're a hopeless romantic!).
So, What's a Saffa to Do?
Should you embrace the irony and pretend you don't care? Or should you dare to be different and publicly appreciate your partner? Maybe it's time for a romantic revolution in Mzansi. Let's bring back the love, one thankful Instagram post at a time! Don't let the 'cringe' win. Share the love, boet!
- Remember the good times.
- Express your gratitude openly.
- Ignore the haters.
Maybe, just maybe, we can bring back the romance and make being thankful cool again. What do you think, South Africa? Are you ready to fight for love?